Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Jigsaw!!

These are just random stuff that floated across my mind… I have been typing them down for some time and suddenly I thought I’ll just collect it together and publish it as a post…. All the paragraphs are totally unconnected and confusing… but then it can also be described as abstract writing huh?? :D

LIFE ROCKZ!!!!

Life is beautiful if you accept it as it is. Stop dreaming about how it could be and start loving the way it is. When feeling completely depressed think of one really happy part of your life and ponder whether anyone else could have such a happy moment. You’ll realise how beautiful your life is.

Each person is unique the way they are. No one can steal our identity. Even if another person’s life may seem beautiful only the person himself/herself knows how it is really. Get pleasure out of the simple things in life - walking in the rain….. reading an exciting book with a bar of chocolate at your side…… taking a beauty bath…… writing a testimonial for someone who least expects it……. loving…..

Love is an unique emotion… it can make your life meaningful…. it is a bond that can exist between anyone….a mother and child…..between siblings…..between friends….in short it is something that can happen anywhere, anytime and between anyone….. Love can hurt….but that makes it divine…. It a a bond that makes us forget the shortcomings of another person and accept the person as he/she is…

INCOMPLETE

We can never quench the eternal thirst of our heart…. But then it was never meant to be quenched…. It is this thirst for more that keeps life going…. If you wanna live you need to have something to work for… something you really need…..something you are willing to die for or rather willing to live for … When you have everything you ever need you cease to exist… When there is something incomplete… when you feel an emptiness which needs to be filled… you get the urge to search… to discover…


WHY GROW UP???

Why grow up and loose your innocence??? Why grow up and become suspicious of everything?? Why grow up and be conscious of your every action?? Why grow up and stop doing all the crazy things you love to do?? Why grow up and suppress all your feelings?? Why grow up and hide everything you wanna say or do just because its different??

Children are not bothered about what others think of them. Children are not suspicious of others and believe everything they hear. Children don’t hide their feelings. They cry when they are hurt, laugh when they are happy and reveal how exactly they feel about others. Children do not stop themselves from doing something just because its not the usual thing to do…

Being a child is so awesome… Yet we all strive to grow up… but why??? I’m very often called “childish” and teased for my lack of maturity… I am extremely emotional. If I’m hurt I’ll cry.. If I’m happy I’ll laugh(I have an idiotic laugh by the way). If I’m angry I’ll shout (extremely loudly). If I like someone I say it openly and if don’t like someone I’ll show my dislike openly…. If I have an opinion I speak vehemently about it. I become damn attached to my friends and it breaks my heart if they don’t act the way I expect them to act. I do and speak crazy things when I’m in a crazy mood…

I don’t consider these as immature actions…. it’s the way we all act naturally… but once we strive to grow up we tend to suppress these natural tendencies.. We begin to be conscious of others… we are so bothered about what others would think about us that we forget to think about what actually makes us happy… everything we say or do becomes according to some invisible rule written by the society….

But the world is a cruel place… it makes us grow up too soon… the innocent gets cheated… beliefs get destroyed… and revealing too much of your emotions makes it easy for others to hurt you. Growing up may not give you true happiness but at least you can avoid getting hurt….. So I’m in a never ending conflict with myself…. I haven’t decided yet whether I should grow up….

KOI YAAR NAZAAR NAHI ATHA.. JAB PYAAR HOTA HAI.....

How can a person forget his friends just because he fell in love??? How can a person break his promises just because he fell in love??? How can a person hurt others just because he fell in love??? How can a person become totally emotionless to friends just because he fell in love??? How can a person neglect his friends totally and remember them only in need just because he fell in love???

I cannot answer these questions because I’ve never been in love…. Maybe these questions don’t have an answer…. Or maybe these are not questions but a definition for love….